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Being scared of failing is one of the most stupid and ridiculous things I have ever heard. It is crazy how many people I talk to and meet and the amount of stories I hear about why people are scared of failing.
If we are failing we are doing a great job. If you are making the same mistakes over and over again then you are obviously not learning something. But if you are making mistakes on the road to greater success that is awesome because you are moving forward, you are going into unchartered territory. The only way you are going to keep moving forward in life is by making mistakes and by screwing things up, by stuffing things up and that’s fantastic! If you are driving forward, if you are an achiever or if you want to achieve more in your life, you need to keep moving forward into that unchartered territory. Mentors and coaches are there to help you to stop the massive blows and lessen the amount of failure that you are going to experience. However you are still going to have a lot of it (failure) along the way. The key is to look for consistent improvement along the way. That is what it is all about.
ARE YOU JUST SCARED OF A BRUISED EGO?
The fear of failing is really just a load of rubbish. If people are scared of failing they are really just scared of having their ego hurt, their identity hurt, they are worried about what other people are going to say to them but in the long run, who cares. Most people are more worried about their own problems in life rather than being worried about everyone else’s. I know that achievers fail. When I hear about other achievers failing, that’s awesome and I’m happy to reward them about it. I feel good when my mates are out there doing things that are failing, because I want to help push them back up because I know that they are pushing the limits.
You can be one of those people too who are out there helping others to fail more, inspiring others to greatness to get out there and push the limits. This is going to lead to failure but the only reason why people are scared to fail is because they are scared of bruising their own ego. They are scared of what other people are going to say, they’re scared that they won’t fit in anymore, they’re scared that they are going to be judged.
CELEBRATE OTHER PEOPLE’S SUCCESSES
But really, all that fear is a load of rubbish because fear is a mechanism that protects our life; it protects us from life threatening situations yet all of a sudden people are afraid of everything. They are afraid of things that don’t even matter, they are afraid of things people might say on their social media account or they are scared of what someone is going to say to them on the street or they are worried about how others are going to perceive them. It’s not even a fear it is ego protection, you don’t need to worry about that stuff. If you feel good about who you are as a person and you know you are doing things for the right reason, don’t worry about what other people say. The higher you stand and the more you stand up in this world, the easier it will be for people who feel bad about their own lives and bad about themselves to attack you. It happens consistently where somebody stands up and says I am achieving something amazing and because they are standing up and standing out, they are an easy target. But normally those who attack others, and people who attack people who are achieving, are normally the people who lower the standard of our society as they want everyone to be less, not more. If we are going to create a society where we are constantly moving forward and shifting into gear, where we are creating more abundance, more happiness, more love, more joy we need to start celebrating other people’s successes and celebrating others wins, not shooting them down.
It’s time now for everyone to stand up and start moving forward and forget about these crappy feelings of being judged. It’s time for you to figure out what you want in this world and to just step forward because when you start moving forward, I guarantee you, there are going to be other people who are doing the same thing who are going to stand by you to support you. They know what it is like to be on that battlefield with you and they are going to love it that you might be making mistakes and they are going to love it that you might be failing. They also love every time to you get back up when you are knocked to the ground. They are the people you want support from, not others who are living a lesser life who feel like they are not good enough in themselves that they need to attack other people who are achieving. Don’t even worry about that, honestly it’s your time to thrive.
Go out there and make stuff happen. It’s your time to thrive
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